Introduction
B points
A points
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A point Section Overview (4:17)
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Dynamic A the principle of Change (4:17)
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Understanding your True A point (5:49)
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Forgiveness (5:27)
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Know your level of self mastery (3:19)
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Know your level of Relationship mastery (3:58)
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Know your degree of Parenting knowledge (4:07)
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Know your parenting roles (2:47)
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Know your parenting style (1:42)
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Know your parenting/family goals (2:34)
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Know your family what, how and why (4:50)
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Know your plan (3:26)
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Know your parenting agreement (2:04)
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Check your P’s (4:06)
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Quiz for A points
A Point Assessments
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Section Overview (2:27)
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being v doing v thinking
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open v closed mind (10:12)
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Reactive v Responsive (12:33)
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Fixed v Growth (15:36)
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Outcome v Process (14:55)
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personality style overview (7:05)
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personality style assessment (7:48)
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personality style & relationships (2:15)
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parenting style overview (10:02)
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parenting style assessment (5:20)
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meta program assessment (13:07)
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cognitive distortion assessment (13:48)
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governing style assessment (9:06)
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assess reassess & assess some more (3:56)
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Quiz for A point assessments
“2” the voyage of change
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The “2” of the A2B starts with the ABC’s (1:53)
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Mindset, what is it? (4:11)
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Mindset A (3:45)
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Mindset B (3:41)
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Mindset C (6:06)
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Parenting Method Wheel (2:26)
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Parenting Method Factors (0:56)
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Roles & Task Unpacked (2:12)
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Task change = Method change (1:51)
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Step 1 (3:36)
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Step 2 (2:30)
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Step 3 (4:01)
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Step 4 (2:23)
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Step 5 (3:26)
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Step 6 (6:20)
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Is mastery needed? (0:47)
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Optimum Performance (3:25)
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How long will it take? (4:09)
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Realistic Goal (2:53)
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Realistic Agreements (8:01)
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Understanding is needed (3:33)
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Time to Understanding (6:46)
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Knowing where you are (2:47)
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Time to Form NEW Habits (7:29)
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The 3 P’s of smooth change (3:16)
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Realistic Change (7:22)
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Change in Self (2:53)
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Change in Relationship (4:11)
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Change in Parenting (3:57)
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Change in Family Dynamics (6:13)
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Quiz for "2" the voyage of change
Mapping out our “2”
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Story about MAPS part 1 (7:21)
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Story about MAPS part 2 (7:20)
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Ignorance pledge (6:46)
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Where are you? (9:49)
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Comparing your voyages part 1 (8:44)
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Comparing your voyages part 2 (4:25)
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Collect & Compare part 1 (8:49)
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Collect & Compare part 2 (9:10)
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Sharing us with each other (4:13)
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Conversation order (8:29)
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Me vs You??? (7:16)
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Set Goals?? (9:45)
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Family Dynamics (5:00)
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Empty Nesting (9:52)
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The New Routine (6:39)
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Point A to Point B (8:53)
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Step 1 Step 2 part 1 (9:15)
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Step 1 Step 2 part 2 (8:33)
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Why do we need this agreement? part 1 (4:27)
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Why do we need this agreement? part 2 (8:06)
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Assignment fill out the agreement (3:25)
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Star Family coaching GOALS workbook (3:35)
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A Complex Topic (3:15)
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The Optimal Parent Starting Goal part 1 (9:42)
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The Optimal Parent Starting Goal part 2 (9:09)
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Task Preference (8:34)
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Pros and Cons of each Preference (7:48)
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SFC Preference suggestions (8:55)
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The six P’s (7:24)
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Rigid Flexibility (5:33)
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What are Parenting Roles? (9:21)
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Creator Basics (7:30)
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Provider Basics (5:21)
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Nurturer Basics (6:02)
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Buddy Basics (6:42)
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Coach Basics (9:04)
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Governor Basics (9:05)
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Model Basics (9:01)
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Referee Basics (8:46)
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Parenting Roles Wrap Up (9:58)
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the Mind-State ABC’s part 1 (4:20)
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the Mind-State ABC’s part 2 (6:15)
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Positional Experiencing (9:45)
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The wolf, 3 pigs and the squirrels part 1 (9:10)
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The wolf, 3 pigs and the squirrels part 2 (4:11)
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Attitude Techniques part 1 (3:31)
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Attitude Techniques part 2 (9:17)
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Attitude Techniques part 3 (9:32)
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The “D” word unpacked part 1 (6:40)
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The “D” word unpacked part 2 (9:45)
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Effective Discipline Techniques part 1 (4:54)
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Effective Discipline Techniques part 2 (8:58)
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Effective Discipline Techniques part 3 (6:59)
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Parts of the MAP part 1 (9:42)
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Parts of the MAP part 2 (6:37)
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Assignment Revisiting the parenting agreement (9:57)
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Assignment Practice Discipline Techniques (7:35)
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Assignment Practice Attitude techniques (6:29)
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Assignment Practice Positional Experiencing (6:11)
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Assignment Incorporate your goals into a list or agenda (4:13)
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Assignment Create your MAP (7:52)
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Parenting MAP example & template part 1 (9:18)
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Parenting MAP example & template part 2 (8:43)
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Self mastery in-sync with family values (5:10)
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Modeling Self & relationship Mastery (4:13)
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Modeling Parenting & Family Dynamics Mastery (4:33)
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Modeling Empty Nesting & Life transition Mastery (8:37)
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Modeling Coaching & Governing (4:29)
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Modeling Goals and the Ultimate Goal of Optimal Parenting (8:54)
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The Boy who cried wolf part 1 (9:13)
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The Boy who cried wolf part 2 (8:26)
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Quiz for Mapping out our "2"
“2” the behaviors
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What is Behavior? (4:56)
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An Increasingly Popular Behavior Framework (6:18)
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Behavior Formula (5:22)
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Nature Nurture Mystery (5:46)
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The Power of Belief (5:09)
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Motivational Factors (6:07)
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Assignment using Match Mismatch (3:39)
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Towards & Away Motivation (6:40)
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Emotion Energy connection (7:31)
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Why we misbehave (9:00)
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Equilibrium Disequilibrium (6:43)
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Poor Messaging Communication (4:36)
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Assignment using Ladder of inference (5:39)
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Parenting Style (7:19)
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M.E. Mind Unpacked (5:10)
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Cognitive Distortions unpacked (7:54)
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Meta Programs unpacked (5:45)
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Emotional Intelligence (5:20)
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Upstairs Downstairs (5:16)
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Cognition Construct (8:47)
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Biological Timelines & Charts (6:33)
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Jean Piaget Timelines & charts (6:53)
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Erik Erikson Timelines & charts
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Robert Kegan Timelines & charts (6:03)
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Morris Massey Timelines & charts (6:09)
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Other notables Timelines & charts (9:02)
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Creation of the Cognition Tower (6:30)
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What is our actual age? (9:09)
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Early Bloomers, In-Sync and Late Bloomers (7:41)
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Chronological Age (3:37)
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Biological Age (3:04)
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Relative Age (3:53)
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Maturation Age Intellectual & Emotional (3:26)
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Experiential Age (3:56)
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Complexities of DA & NNM (7:27)
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Quiz for "2" the behaviors
To A2B we need to communicate
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Communication Principles (5:16)
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Why we need to communicate (5:07)
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How it fits into the 6 phases of the human voyage (3:55)
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Brief history of communication (2:53)
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Tower of Babble (5:05)
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Translators (7:35)
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Communication the environment we Create & Navigate (5:05)
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Aspen Study on the value of Nurture/Communication (5:23)
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Our first language and means of communicating (6:37)
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Communication the two way street that begins with your senses (7:19)
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The triple A’s of Effective Listening (6:39)
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Two eyes One mouth (2:54)
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Eye to Eye Head to head leveling (4:26)
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Poor communication habits (4:46)
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Poor Delivery Methods (6:11)
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The Better Delivery Method (3:53)
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Love Language Overview (3:52)
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Love Languages broken down (5:08)
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Plus one, Glasser’s Addition (7:19)
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How to Determine Love Language (5:25)
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Cognition Tower, the tool to help with communication (9:15)
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Body Language & Emotional Language with C.T. (4:51)
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M.E. Mind the congress of your mind (6:20)
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M.E. Elevator the vehicle driven by the “P” (6:18)
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Mindfulness the connecting force of M.E. mind (3:51)
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Three Primary Position Review (8:39)
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Using the M.E. Elevator with C.T. to connect with your child. (5:13)
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Using the M.E. Elevator with Mindfulness (7:04)
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Examples of C.T. with M.E. Elevator for levels 1 & 2 (6:02)
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Examples of C.T. with M.E. Elevator for level 3 (8:46)
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Examples of C.T. with M.E. Elevator for level 4
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The Big 3 Roles using the C.T. & M.E. tools (4:28)
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A look at Emotional Intelligence & Phase 5 (7:14)
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C.T.M.E. & Coaching (9:23)
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C.T.M.E. & Governing (4:04)
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C.T.M.E. & Modeling (4:37)
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Communication Behavior, the phase 1 & 2 connection (3:51)
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Quiz for To A2B we need to communicate
A2B Strategies
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Strategy as a Concept (2:15)
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Coach Strategy (4:55)
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The components of Strategy (5:50)
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Parenting Strategy & It’s Importance (4:27)
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Shooting from the Hip (4:38)
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Mirror Mirror on the wall (3:47)
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Strategic Actions & Reactions (5:05)
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Ineffective Parenting Phrases (4:57)
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WHY these phrases are ineffective (4:32)
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Ineffective Words (3:17)
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WHY these words are ineffective (3:47)
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Ineffective Parenting Styles (6:55)
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WHY these styles are ineffective (5:51)
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Strategy Topics (6:45)
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Principles & Optimal Process Flowchart (6:06)
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TRICK (5:15)
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TRICK Breakdown (5:51)
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Intro to ACT (6:17)
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Why ACT as a strategy? (7:21)
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Intro to GROWTH (4:21)
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Intro to PET (4:53)
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SFC in a nutshell (5:45)
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The Language of Acceptance (5:31)
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Examples of Verbal Acceptance (3:46)
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Listening with Purpose (5:34)
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Actively Digging for the need (4:04)
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Who own’s the problem? (7:14)
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The Problem of unacceptable behavior (6:00)
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You Messages vs I-Messages (3:43)
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The power of the “I” (9:06)
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The “How to” of behavior change (6:15)
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Dewey’s & Glasser’s Recipes (9:18)
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Power Struggle with “win win” approach (6:43)
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Breaking Down the three methods (5:13)
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Putting PET into Action (5:30)
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Growth from Concrete to Formal (4:58)
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Center of Control (4:34)
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Implicit theories of Intelligence (5:43)
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Dweck meets Lipton (5:12)
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Belief: your mind’s sub-conscious GOAL! (5:19)
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Belief/Brain Change (5:57)
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Growth Strategy Parenting (7:06)
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Growth in Parenting (9:59)
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The selecting process (6:28)
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Dynamic Strategy (4:45)
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Combining Strategy (4:57)
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Strategy of Optimal Strategy (7:09)
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Method Change review (6:23)
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Your Strategy & the first 2 phases of Parenthood (5:14)
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Your Strategy & phases 3 & 4 of Parenthood (3:41)
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Your Strategy & phases 5 & 6 of Parenthood (5:31)
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Taking time to pause, examine and Tweak (6:12)
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Quiz for A2B Strategies
A2B Family Management
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Time It’s value importance and reality (3:58)
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Time Measures (4:53)
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Time Wasters (5:42)
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Time Investments (9:58)
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How to look at our use of time (9:29)
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How to evaluate our time spent (8:34)
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How to analyze our time (7:00)
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Tools to help us with time (3:29)
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Star Family Constitution (5:47)
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Step 1 (4:34)
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Step 2 (6:14)
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Step 3 (3:32)
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Step 4 (6:35)
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Step 5 (7:37)
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Step 6 (7:46)
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Step 7 (7:03)
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Step 8 (7:38)
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Step 9 (4:01)
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Step 10 (6:00)
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Training video overview (2:42)
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Part 1 of 5 (9:34)
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Part 2 of 5 (8:54)
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Part 3 of 5 (9:26)
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Part 4 of 5 (9:40)
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Part 5 of 5 (9:53)
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Capture Grow Release (7:35)
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Tying the pieces together (6:15)
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Quiz for A2B family Management
WRAP-UP & Final thoughts
